tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post3786765757348953962..comments2023-07-01T12:45:46.344+02:00Comments on She's Losing it...: I need some advice!Kittyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15422328550710452031noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-40035377943970599222012-07-17T16:12:17.825+02:002012-07-17T16:12:17.825+02:00lovely blog, followed.
follow back xlovely blog, followed.<br />follow back xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-7631137462563930992012-07-17T13:25:36.296+02:002012-07-17T13:25:36.296+02:00Hi,
I found your blog through zerointentions. You ...Hi,<br />I found your blog through zerointentions. You definitely have some inspiring stuff to say, and I think I'll continue to read. The advice I might give for this situation is that you could tell your sister that you're not inclined to trust her until she proves that she can be trustworthy. People do go through some tough times during their teenage years, and the people they are during those years aren't always the people the want to be.Emily Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825753991702537079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-7167024943143432032012-07-16T23:36:48.821+02:002012-07-16T23:36:48.821+02:00I think you need to do what is the best for you an...I think you need to do what is the best for you and the baby, sometimes staying away from a person is the best for all parties involved. But then again its natural to forgive family and give them another chance especially if they were clouded with drugs or going through their teenage years, people are so much different when they have grown up a bit.<br /><br />Maybe she just needs time to grow a little and deal with her problems?Journey to Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17420532794822199416noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-74526335015378555692012-07-16T22:52:56.699+02:002012-07-16T22:52:56.699+02:00What a tough situation. She is young. Not that i...What a tough situation. She is young. Not that it's the ultimate excuse for behaving badly but she also has dealt with some pretty heavy issues as a child. It's good that it's not drugs because drugs are a tough think to kick and they tend to take over and not let go but a pathological liar can be just as bad of a situation to deal with. It's sad to just shut the door b/c she is so young so I'd say give her another chance but keep her at arms length and make it CLEAR that you are not playing around. If she screws up again you are done with her. She should be old enough to understand that now.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-50689934137154958562012-07-16T19:01:11.733+02:002012-07-16T19:01:11.733+02:00I'm all for second chances love. She isn't...I'm all for second chances love. She isn't addicted and she has never had any drug issues. <br /><br />And she is just making up some excuse. I think the reason why she is using drugs as an excuse for her actions is cause my other sister had problems and she always wanted to be like her.Kittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15422328550710452031noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-35346476194580120552012-07-16T17:38:56.124+02:002012-07-16T17:38:56.124+02:00If she's lying, then nothing will change. I sa...If she's lying, then nothing will change. I say wait until you actaully see a real change. She will eventually come around. <br /><br />~MLMMoonlight Mistresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01076863925758010550noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-28237595444539740822012-07-16T14:49:22.181+02:002012-07-16T14:49:22.181+02:00I was addicted to drugs for 6 years and I relied o...I was addicted to drugs for 6 years and I relied on others to give me a second chance.<br />I know your sister is not addicted but if it was me I would give her a chance but make it clear there will be consequences if she messes up.<br />She sounds like she is a bit lost and is full of anger, let her know you are there for her but you won't put up with negative behaviour.<br />She is still very young and hopefully she will mature in time.<br /><br />Hope it all works out xRuby Tuesdayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15078080281794429051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-5402862542210706722012-07-16T14:44:18.604+02:002012-07-16T14:44:18.604+02:00You do not need to "trust" her right off...You do not need to "trust" her right off to give her a chance. trust and respect are earned. I would say spend time with her get a feel for how things might be going. work at it dont just though yourself out there. there is nothing wrong with taking it slow with family. and no one says you need to forget what she has done but if you can forgive later then great.ednos Linnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10397799763793167331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-51704413217509460932012-07-16T13:28:03.464+02:002012-07-16T13:28:03.464+02:00Remember that she is a child with a brain that has...Remember that she is a child with a brain that has not fully developed. Hold her accountable for her actions with that in mindKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01057040278147680560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-7307631609045217692012-07-16T12:20:09.835+02:002012-07-16T12:20:09.835+02:00Firstly I completely agree and I'm so glad to ...Firstly I completely agree and I'm so glad to have found people like you!<br />Oh boy... I have no idea what I would do because I'm not in the situation but I've got to say- go with your gut. If it was me I would want loving supportive positive family around my child, if they would do more harm than good I would leave a distance between us. If I got pregnant now I would avoid my husbands family except for birthdays and christmas... but having said that people do grow up and change, perhaps give her one chance and see how it goes? Good luck, just do what feels right for you xxxxClairehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10632090562711819003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8685920584608990099.post-16200792291771122782012-07-16T11:23:28.887+02:002012-07-16T11:23:28.887+02:00My younger sister is an awkward, lying, angry indi...My younger sister is an awkward, lying, angry individual too who screams about how people aren’t showing her respect... I first tried (calmly) to explain the error of her ways and why the family is not putting up with it anymore (Hitting and verbally abusing my mother) but that just made it worse. I even had to apologize to her? <br /><br />So I just swallowed my anger took a deep breath and let it all go, that was 4 months ago and now il just wait for her to come to me when she needs me.<br /><br />I would give your sister a chance but don’t show her how angry she has made you just let it all go, it is harder said than done though x<br /><br />Good luck xxKatehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18246519440988026435noreply@blogger.com