What a week...

This week has had a whole lot of ups and downs.. More downs than up I'm afraid..
As much as I was annoyed with my family being here I was glad my mum was here - cause couple of days ago my uncle who lives in Dubai (The one who walked me down the isle, which my mother doesn't normaly get along with), texted me that their older brother had died.

I want to start with saying that my mum has 3 brothers, one couple of years older than her, one couple of years younger than her, and the youngest one which is 3 years older than me. My oldest uncle he was a very very kind man. Always so loving, thinking and wanting the best for others.. And life being what it is (Specially for those living in Iran now) he ended up involved in drugs years ago, and eventhough our family has tried to get him to rehab times and times again, he never got sober.

My grandma and them are saying what happened to him was an accident (they say he fell off a bridge), but I am pretty sure he commited suicide.. He got 55 years old.. He has two kids in their mid/late teens.. The fall broke his spine, they say that he had a day in surgary, and the result was him being paralized from waist down.. A week later he died...

As much as this is breaking my heart, I think he is in a better place now. He hadn't been living for years.. He just was there.. And this horrible situation, has brought my mothers family together. I'm glad she was here when I gave her the news, cause else I don't know how she would handle it.

It really makes one think... Life can be over before you know it..

Thank you all for always being there for me.. I have said it before, I say it again... Some of you mean the world to me even though I don't know you in "real life"...

I will be back tomorrow with another post, numbers ect.. For now.. Just remember life is short.. Do something that makes you happy.. Really happy....



  1. I'm sorry for the loss, Kitty. While I would never want someone to take their life, I also believe his suffering is over. (hugs)

  2. i'm so sorry for your loss sweetie :(
    that is just a terrible way to go. at least he lived some part of his life. still it was so unexpected - that's how I feel like whenever someone dies. even if they're lying on their death beds it feels...like they can't just die
    life's too short to be serious. that's what Cory said. and he died of a drug overdose.
    I also believe his suffering is over. as said before - dying is easy. living is hard.


    -Sam Lupin

    1. He did not overdose. IF (and that is an IF, because we do not know), he didn't overdose, he jumped/fell/hopped off a bridge.

    2. The actor Cory Monteith from Glee recently died of a heroin/alcohol overdose

  3. Life IS short, and it doesn't get easier, but we just get better at handling it. Hang in there